We attended our “Waiting Families” seminar last weekend in
Vancouver. We were joined by about 18 other families, all waiting to adopt. It
was a very informative day. It was also a sad day. I looked around at all these
amazing people who want nothing more than to parent. They are wanting and
willing to open their hearts and their homes to a baby. I recognize the longing in their eyes and familiar
longing in their hearts. The realization
is that currently there are not enough children being placed for adoption. Within the last decade the minimization of
abortion and the growth in financial support for women having children has
greatly increased. There are many more options for mothers who choose to
parent. We were supposed to be off of the waiting list for our agency by May.
It is mid-May and we are currently number three. The process is moving much slower than we had
anticipated (and were told.) We have inquired with other larger agencies out of
state; however the cost goes up exponentially.
It is unfortunate, but a lot of decisions come down to finances. So far this adoption journey has been very
interesting and eye opening. I never anticipated it would be so difficult to be
patient. I stay extremely busy in our
day-to-day activities but my heart is aching. I know our daughter is out there,
I am having a hard time waiting for her. I am going to focus on the short term
goals in front of us for and join in the excitement of other families as their
prayers are answered. I am going to try and stay positive and hopeful. The
support of our friends helps us stay optimistic. I hope our next post will talk
about us starting the home study process. Much love.
